This is a pep talk and not for the faint of heart, know this comes with much support and understanding, however it needs to be addressed.
Not everyone will want to work with you.
As an empath I get it, it hurts. Rejection sucks.
Especially when you put your heart and soul into your purpose and you feel its not seen, understood or valued as valuable to others.
But if you look deeper into the feelings you are left with, there is always an underlying acknowledgement that it wasn’t meant to be, and you knew this.
I work a little differently to most coaches, and so do my clients. We make sure that we choose our clients and customers as much as they choose us. This however comes with it’s own issues, because when we get rejected it hurts even more, because we thought we had got it right.
Again when we go deeper, we know on a level of personal truth that we weren’t 100% sure about working together either, but Wanted too none the less, interesting isn’t it. You see what we Want, isn’t always what we Need.
Now you can choose to feel rejected and defeated and as though your purpose is no longer meaningful. Or you can acknowledge the fact that everything is an opportunity to learn and grow. That your boundaries within your business are fundamental and qualifying your potential clients is oh so important to ensure you only deal with those who already know they Need to work with you – not Want.
Let’s take ‘wanting’ out of the picture all together. Become detached from the outcomes and trust in ourselves, our services and the results we get to create when we are on our truest path.
None of it is a waste, it is a gentle reminder to keep in aligned action, to believe ever so much more in ourselves, and the clients that we do work with. Because that is where the magic happens when you are with that specific person you came here to work with and for.
Do not allow yourself to get led down the pity pathway and stop all the good you are doing. Even though you might feel the strong pull towards giving up. Instead stand tall, feel your power at being able to naturally attract your tribe of people and repel those you are meant to.
Here are some reminders:
- Make it easy for people to see what it’s like working with you, by being visible.
- Be transparent with what it takes to work with you.
- Qualify your potential clients and customers before committing to them.
- Be clear about who you want to work with, and why.
- Build a connection, so you can truly see one another.
- Never compromise your values or integrity
- Be flexible, where you intuitively know the outcomes beneficial for everyone.
- Trust your-damn-self! Never waver!
- Acknowledge your value, stand by it and shout about it.
And there are even some amazing tools for Business that can support you in automating your pathways for Business which are in alignment to all of the above.
My personal favourites are:
- Trello for all your project management needs, and even managing clients and customers jointly.
- Acuity* for setting up an intuitive workflow from scheduling to qualifying and receiving payment.
- Zoom for connecting and meeting people
- Facebook as a social platform to create groups, learning units and start to get to know your audience.
If you are a Conscious Aspiring or Established Entrepreneur who feels this way and wants to be in a place where they are feeling their confidence, their alignment in business, ease in being themselves and doing things their own unique way. This is where I can support you.
I understand what it takes to be in Business as an empath, and how you can remain true to yourself in the process yet be a Success, and allow yourself to feel the Success. If you are looking for a Coach to help you elevate your Business and you’re wanting someone who understands the feelings behind inspired and aligned action.
And you want someone who will value your uniqueness, get behind your dreams just the way they are and support you to enhance them….
…..Without the pressure and the frameworks that everyone else is doing. Then we should talk.
I am starting another Conscious Creation Business Accelerator Program and I am currently qualifying my ideal group. If you’d like to be considered to join me and my amazing Spiritual Empathetic Boss Babes in the Conscious Creation Business Accelerator, then Apply Now.
This Business should be exciting, you should have people you’re serving, you should be making the difference you crave to make and you should be supported in doing so. And I am Consciously Creating the space for this and inviting you to join me
So the question is, are you ready?
If you want to know more about Business Building and how I can support you, I am opening up Applications to invite in my Ideal Soul Clients to join my Conscious Creation Business Accelerator Program.
If you are wanting to be supported, to learn and grow with like minded Spiritual Boss Babes Apply Now for your free discovery call – you honestly have no idea how magical Business can be when you are in the company of total Inspiration, Community and Support.
Alison Callan is The Clarity and Success Coach for Aspiring Entrepreneurs, as well as an Internationally Accredited Coach and Mindfulness Consultant, Facilitator and Speaker.
Committed to helping You mindfully align with your mission to create Conscious Business with Purpose, Confidence and Ease. So that you live a life you love and deserve with Clarity through Conscious Creation.
* Please note I am an affiliate of Acuity, and have attached my link accordingly.